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An Escape From Alzheimer's, Groovy Grams

Great Grams ran inward terror, together with she unremarkably ran toward what she feared most. She was an escapist.

By Max Wallack


Max together with Great Grams
My Great Grams, who passed away from dementia inward 2007, knew she was “in trouble” (her words), together with e'er felt she needed to escape. She only didn’t empathize that the fearful matter that she needed to escape was inside her ain brain.

Great Grams made many escapes. What she feared most was non having a home.

What she feared was beingness position into a nursing establishment or hospital. She would escape when she was fearful that we, her family, would position her into such a facility.

The sorry purpose of this was that her escapes would oftentimes brand her greatest fears a reality.


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The worst of Great Grams’ escapes came early 1 morning. Grandma together with Grandpa were abode amongst Great Grams. Grandma was withal sleeping.

Often Great Grams would innovation her escape. One agency nosotros had a heads upwards was that nosotros would let out that she would position on her nightgown on top of all her other 24-hour interval clothes, thus she would last create for her escape.

On this detail morning, Great Grams quietly snuck out of the house. The draw of piece of job solid is on top of a steep hill. Once y'all walk downwards the long street, y'all attain a major street.

Keep inward mind, Great Grams was most 92, together with she had Paget’s illness of the bone, which, inward her case, produced leg hurting together with a weak bowed left leg.

Well, somehow Great Grams managed to run downwards that entire loma to the master copy street. Grandpa noticed she was gone, together with ran after her. He didn’t fifty-fifty receive got fourth dimension to position shoes on.

Now, Great Grams was a real fearful woman. She had been a fearful individual her whole life. She was afraid of traffic, afraid of strangers, etc. Well, this fearful adult woman started flagging downwards trucks out on the major route to beg for aid because nosotros were “going to kill her”.

Let’s flick that scene. H5N1 tiny adult woman inward her 90’s is standing on a major street corner amongst a human being around 60. This man, wearing no shoes, is contention amongst the woman. (He was trying to convince her to come upwards home.)

It didn’t accept long for a truck to halt together with offering help. Then, the unbelievable happened. Great Grams, this tiny fearful adult woman amongst the bad leg, climbed upwards into the truck amongst this foreign man. Her fears had driven her to hit what she feared.

Fortunately, nosotros learned later on that the truck driver lived nearby, together with he had accurately assessed the situation. He said he felt sorry for Grandpa.

He drove Great Grams to the law station, where she continued her accusations.

The law sent Great Grams to the infirmary yesteryear ambulance. She was thus transferred to a psychiatric facility for several weeks, earlier she came abode 1 time again.

What Great Grams did, could non last considered wandering, inward my mind, until I read an article explaining escapists.

Great Grams ran inward terror, together with she unremarkably ran toward what she feared most. She was an escapist.

Max Wallack is a pupil at Boston University Academy. His cracking grandmother, Gertrude, suffered from Alzheimer's disease. Max is the founder of PUZZLES TO REMEMBER. PTR is a projection that provides puzzles to nursing homes together with veterans institutions that attention for Alzheimer's together with dementia patients.

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